This week flew by in a
seaspray of crashing waves, sunsets, sandy flip-flop prints and dog licks.
First, I'd like to say that my new place rocks so hard core. The house, the yard, the fountain, the fire pit, the PEOPLE. Oh man, did I luck out! I've got the COOLEST roommates and housemates ever created. They are fun, silly, friendly and just generally fantastic. Each day they crack me up. Last night I walked around and finally took pictures of our
Melrose-
esque compound, so all the Moms back home can rest easy, you'll see where we live!
We also had a potluck dinner last night, with
mahi-
mahi, asparagus risotto, spinach salad, fresh fruit, roasted potatoes and some
cooool Pacifico. The dogs fetched in the yard together as we chatted, laughed and fired up the fire pit. Ann convinced us all to start up her band "Hot Carl" again, so we grabbed some instruments (pots, pans, glasses,
windchimes, a
maraca and some
cellophane) and we rocked it out by the pit. We tried to stay clear of the burning flower tree, as rumor has it it's highly hallucinogenic.
Ahhh California...
It seemed this was a big learning and growing week here in Cali for me. I actually put down my camera for quite a few days and just kinda lived for a while without the sound of a shutter chalking up the memories. Instead, I just let me heart and mind absorb the memories for a while.
And what do I remember of last week?
Well, my surf mentor Jorma is a big part of week 4, having taken me out surfing, out camping and out to numerous beautiful sunsets. And if you are thinking there may be a little more to this mentorship, you are right. Let me give you a little back-story...
Jorma and I had met when I came out to interview in March. He was working on his computer in the campstore and I immediately started chatting him up. That night I invited him to Jodi's (where I was staying) and we talked until way after dark by the campfire. I knew that night he'd be a great friend when I moved here. I went back to New York and he took a job in Denver. For the next 2 months we kept in touch via gchat, talking about his job in Denver and about my plans and dreams of coming out to California. Late at night on the 3rd floor at the Goddy house I'd find myself chatting with him about my life and wondering why I was sharing all these things with an almost complete stranger. The longer I talked to him, the more I got to know him.
When I moved here I found I wanted to talk with him more! Seeing as he was born and raised in Cardiff where I now live, I found Jorma could relate so well to my every experience and my personal surf odyssey. Soon, he was on his way back from Denver, having brilliantly executed a plan to work from here on the project.
And when Jorma came back and we finally got to sit down face to face and start talking? I found I couldn't stop laughing, I couldn't stop smiling and I was pretty much giggling and skipping everywhere I went. We've had a marvelous week filled with discoveries of personalities, pasts, present and future.
We've caught a lot of good sunsets.
Jorma is still helping me surf and showed me how to find the perfect place to sit and catch a wave, as well as how to watch the waves at night. He taught me all about north swells, south swells, beach breaks, reef breaks and when you do and don't want wind. Jorma also got me off the big red foamy and riding my own board!
He sets me in the right place, he encourages me in the perfect voice to "paddle, paddle, paddle" and he smiles as I turn around and paddle back out after catching a wave I never in a million years thought I could catch. But that's just the surfing part.
Jorma makes me feel like I am the most beautiful person in the world and I think he is.
So, this week, I got a new title here in Cardiff that I makes me grin from ear to ear: Jorma's girlfriend. I don't know how I could possibly be so lucky.
You know this blog is about picking up, moving and following your dreams and man, am I glad I started this whole magnificent journey. I've learned so much about what it takes to be happy and how the world rewards those that try. If I can provide any of you with any inspiration that life and happiness in life are achievable, then it's all worth it.
From sunny and happy California...
love,
amanda